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That way, you’re not going from, “Listen to this annoying ass thing that happened to me at the grocery store today,” to “you like that?
”Your partner will give their own clues as to whether or not you’re hitting the right buttons.
Be sure you trust your partner and that he/she won’t weaponize them against you later.
Lauren says if you can’t answer quickly and strongly YES to the question, “do I trust my partner? Safe, sane, and consensual is the motto to keep in mind.
“Imagine if we were at an elegant restaurant, and you were under the table cloth, eating me out while the waiter took our order.” or, “what if we were at a party full of sexy people and they all just started f*cking in front of us?
And feel free to use a pet bedroom name if you have one.
Try teasing your partner like you’re also a music streaming service who refuses to give in to Taylor Swift's demands.
Lauren suggests “setting the stage” with a quick call or flirty text that will make your partner really look forward to talking with you.
Another way to lead your partner into it if you’re both feeling awkward, is to set up a roleplay scenario. For example, “Remember when we were in Aruba and I was teasing you on the beach with my cleavage and later the sex was soooo hot?
Lauren suggests, “Imagine I’m a sex robot you can program to do whatever you want. Imagine if I had done [insert alternative sexy activity].” Some jumping off points, should you need: “What if you realized I was wearing a strap-on under my bikini?Think of as many different scenarios as you can: the library, the back of your car, Paris, in an airplane, at a Costco, etc.As for roleplay scenarios, Lauren suggests: cop, sexy nurse.It’s hard to believe that through all the technological breakthroughs, long-distance sex is still pretty much the same as it was in 1876 when Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone so women could describe their ankles to guys over the phone. But phone sex can really feel like that if you don’t know what you’re doing.