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30-Jul-2018 23:05

And since this week is Bisexual Awareness Week, and I’m feeling sentimental, I’m reflecting on the lessons that relationship taught me, and the ways I learned from him — because my ex-boyfriend was bisexual. The reality was far from it: He was unbearably monogamous and loyal to a fault.

He was a true "50-50" bi guy, a lover of men and women, not an “attention-seeker” or a "halfway-there gay man" or any of the ridiculous and offensive claims people make about bisexuals. This led to his heartache, since he was trying to date me, a gay guy who was not monogamously inclined (and still isn’t), a guy who was too immature to say, “Hey, I’m not really looking for a relationship.” This seems basic, but it's unfortunately still necessary to note in an ongoing effort to counteract this bizarre notion that someone who is attracted to multiple genders will inevitably miss having sex with people of the gender they’re not sleeping with, and cheat. For him, as well as for many others, his claim to bisexuality wasn’t a transitional phase or halfway point between straight and gay.

When I finally told him the truth, answering his oft-asked inquiries about my infidelity with a final, fateful yes, we remained locked in a toxic back-and-forth, shouting insults at each other for a month.

Until about six months ago, when my phone buzzed with a text message from a name I never expected to see on my screen again: “Do you want to get coffee? I needed to tell him I was sorry, he needed to tell me how much I had hurt him, and we both needed to hug. Sure, he may have technically had more options than me — he was drawn to men and women, while I was only drawn to men — but that didn’t make him any more promiscuous or untrustworthy than the next guy.

But Jane confesses to her mom, Xiomara, that she’s “completely hung up” on Adam’s bisexuality.

But late one night, in a parking lot after we had spent an angry hour talking on the phone, I made a decision that I would later consider an act of mercy for both of us: I would never speak to him again — and didn't.

And if you’re a good partner, you will listen to them without immediately getting upset or defensive.

My ex and I had many differences that made us incompatable, but our different orientations were hardly the reason why we split. “When women hook up, it’s looked at as sexy,” she says, “but men are immediately marginalized because our whole culture revolves around the male gaze.” Jane: Well, I guess I feel a little insecure, you know. But it doesn’t matter, because I choose to be with you. star Gina Rodriguez says there were a lot of discussions about the character of Adam before his coming-out episode: “We were introducing a character who comes with a lot of history, a lot of weight for Jane, and a lot of narrative propulsive energy for us,” she tells Rodriguez says she was also interested in exploring Jane’s perception of herself as a progressive. Some of it is residual [because] she grew up in a very religious house and has certain ideas in her head that are based in telenovelas and based on romance writing. But she’s aware enough to know its a double standard. But you can’t give me what other women can give me, either. Which means that you’re not allowed to kiss anyone else.star plays Adam, a comic-book artist in his late 20s who is currently wooing Jane.

The two were once engaged, but he called it off after being pressured by Jane’s mom.

What’s interesting with Jane the Virgin is that the titular character neither rejects Adam out of hand over his sexuality, nor shrugs and acts like its no big deal for her.



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